Children and Church
While I was in Israel last summer, our friend who was also our tour guide shared the following historical excerpt with us (I also heard it in a sermon at my church a few weeks ago as well).
During Biblical times, the lambs used for the Passover sacrifice for each family were actually brought into the Jewish homes for 2 weeks. The main reason for this was so that the family could make absolutely certain that the lamb was without any blemish whatsoever. But there is another reason why they did that as well. During the time the lambs were in the homes, it's pretty safe to say that the Jewish children in those homes probably named those lambs, played with them, maybe even slept with them on their sleeping mats. After those 2 weeks with the lamb, the father would come and take the lamb and slaughter it and spread its blood on the doorposts of the house, and then the father would cook it and the family would eat it. When the lamb was taken away, killed, and subsequently cooked for the Passover meal, it's probably safe to assume that the children were full of questions. See Exodus 12:26-27.
This is very applicable today. I believe it's essential for children to be in church, during the church service. At what age I'm not sure. But as young as possible, as soon as possible. Children need to see their parents in church. Worshipping, praying, tithing, taking the sacraments, giving of their money in the offering plate. They see it, and they'll ask questions. They may not understand the sermon, and they might be bored, but they will see the bride of Christ coming together to worship God faithfully every week. They'll ask why you eat bread and drink wine and what it means. They'll ask why you gave money to the church when earlier in the week you denied buying them something they wanted because you didn't have the money. They'll see a fellowship and body of believers worship and pray together. It's exactly like Exodus 12.
The alternative is unfortunately entertainment far too many times. I've even heard of some churches that have video games and x-boxes in their children's areas, or massive play areas with mazes of slides and playground type equipment. So the kids play for most of the time, then hear a 5 minute lesson on Daniel in the lion's den, and it's over. The kids then, of course, love "church" and parents are pleased. Many parents are just content that "their kids are in church" on Sunday. This is not Biblical. And it starts a pattern in the hearts and minds of the children that entertainment equals church...which a lot of the time carries into church preference and the church model they search for in adulthood.
Deuteronomy 6:6-9 or 11:18-21. The teaching of God and of Biblical principles and stories to children should for the most part take place in the home. It doesn't as often as it should, of course, but that's how it should be. I have no problem with some church children's ministries, but when it replaces an intentional liturgical service, as I believe they should be, then it's very harmful. Instead of the child seeing their parents and their church body worshipping the Lord and taking the bread and the wine and loving their Savior, they're playing on slides and playing Nintendo... and loving every second of it.


